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James 4:1-10 (NLT)

“What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you? 2 You want what you don’t have, so you scheme and kill to get it. You are jealous of what others have, but you can’t get it, so you fight and wage war to take it away from them. Yet you don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. 3 And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong—you want only what will give you pleasure.4 Don’t you realize that friendship with the world makes you an enemy of God? I say it again: If you want to be a friend of the world, you make yourself an enemy of God. 5 Do you think the Scriptures have no meaning? They say that God is passionate that the spirit he has placed within us should be faithful to him. 6 And he gives grace generously. As the Scriptures say, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” 7 So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Come close to God, and God will come close to you. Wash your hands, you sinners; purify your hearts, for your loyalty is divided between God and the world. 9 Let there be tears for what you have done. Let there be sorrow and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy. 10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up in honor.” 

"God ... gives grace to the humble.  Humble yourself before the Lord, and He will lift you up in honor."  James 4:6,10 (NLT) 

Definition: Quarrel — “A heated argument, typically about a trivial issue, between people who are usually on good terms.” 

I. WHAT CAUSES QUARRELS? 

• THE CAUSE OF QUARRELS IS: CONFLICTING DESIRES

“What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you?” James 4:1 (NLT) 

“For what our human nature wants is opposed to what the Spirit wants, and what the Spirit wants is opposed to what our human nature wants. So these two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you cannot do the things that you please.” Galatians 5:17, GN/NLT/NASB 

• THE DESIRE TO HAVE POSSESSIONS

“What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil DESIRES at war within you?” You want what you don’t have … You are jealous of what others have …” James 4:1-2a (NLT)        

• THE DESIRE TO FEEL GOOD (PLEASURE)

“What is causing the quarrels and fights among you? Don’t they come from the evil desires at war within you? … You want only what will give you pleasure” James 4:1,3 (NLT) 

“God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.”  1 Timothy 6:17b (NLT) 

• THE DESIRE TO BE NUMBER ONE (PRIDE & POWER)

"Pride leads to arguments ..." Proverbs 13:10 (LB) 

 “You don’t have what you want because you don’t ask God for it. 3 And even when you ask, you don’t get it because your motives are all wrong …”  James 4:2-3 (NLT) 

"God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble."  James 4:6 (NLT) 

II. THE CURE FOR ARGUMENTS: HUMILITY

"God ... gives grace to the humble.  Humble yourself before the Lord, and He will lift you up in honor."  James 4:6,10 (NLT)

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